Hey FB, I'm not a neurotypical parent. I have Autism and ADHD.

And jugemental people like you are why I choose to steer myself and my family away from the Autism Community. Because you feel that my experience is "gross" because it doesn't line up with what you think it should be or I didn't use the right terminology you deem apporpiate.

How about instead of fighting with someone IN YOUR OWN COMMUNITY, we working on making things better for all of us?

Just a thought...